Life can be so crazy we barely get a chance to stop and smell the flowers, but when someone does something nice unexpectedly, it makes your day. These little things, when done for your significant other, can bring your relationship to another level. In guy terms, it will score you major brownie points and ultimately sex! Did I get your attention? Lol
I can't speak for everyone, but I know I greatly appreciate it when someone takes the time to do something special for me. It doesn't have to be big or expensive, the simplest gesture can make the biggest impact. As the saying goes, "Big things come in small packages".
Some examples of little things strangers have done that made my day:
1. I was on my way to an appointment at the hospital driving around trying to find a spot. Finally someone was leaving so I waited and parked. The car had initially left, but as I stepped out of my car the gentleman returned. He got out of his car and ran over to me.
Him: Good morning, wait before you put money into the machine, here's my ticket. There's over a half hour left, no point in wasting money if you don't have to.
Me: Thank you so much, have a wonderful day!
Him: You're very welcome, good luck with your appointment.
I was very touched. He didn't have to come back and give me his ticket, I'm sure he had somewhere to be. It was a very kind gesture and he put a smile on my face. Great way to start the day!
2. One evening walking through the parking lot towards the entrance to the grocery store, a car suddenly sped up and slammed his brakes right in front of me. It was a gentleman driving and he rolled down his window. Of course I assumed the worse and stepped back wondering what was going on.
Him: Good evening Ma'am, sorry to startle you, but I saw your beautiful hair from across the parking lot and had to pay you a compliment.
Me: Thank you, thank you very much.
Him: Have a wonderful evening.
Me: Thank you and you also.
Always nice to receive an unsolicited compliment, especially from a stranger! Not sure I'd scare the crap out of someone before delivering a nice compliment, but that was his style and it certainly got my attention.
3. I had to go out and pick up some uniforms for my employees. I brought a new employee with me so she would know where to go next time. I hadn't been to the store in about a year. We walked in and were greeted immediately. Out from the back came the owner.
Him: Hey, how are you? Haven't seen you in ages. Government right, you're with -----?
Me: Yes, great memory.
Him: Wait, your name. Give me a second. ------!
Me: Wow, you're really good!
My employee was stunned, especially when she asked how often I go in there and I told her it had been over a year. Being remembered when I go into a store, makes me feel appreciated. When they address me by my name, even more so. The fact that he always goes the extra mile to make sure I get my order asap keeps me going back.
Being unforgettable in retail can be a bad thing, but don't worry, I'm not one of those nightmare customers we hope will never return. I remember those from my days in retail. I want to make a good impression and show gratitude when I receive good service.
4. On my way to visit family with the kids, a gentleman from WestJet saw us coming into the airport and immediately came over and helped with our bags. I was carrying the baby and we had all the luggage with my other three straggling behind.
Him: Good morning, your hands are full so let me help out a bit.
Me: No worries, I have my three helpers.
Him: I'm on my break, I insist it's no trouble at all.
Me: Don't waste your break, you have a long day ahead of you.
Him: Not a waste, it will be my pleasure. Follow me guys, we'll go right to the front and get you checked in.
He helped with all the bags, got us to the front of the line and waited to make sure I didn't need any help getting to security. We had a stroller and car seat, he took them over to the oversized luggage area for us then wished us a safe trip and fun holiday.
These are just a few examples, but every single one made me smile and brightened my day.
When it comes to dating and relationships, there's so much we can do to make the other person feel special. Here's a few examples that work for me:
1. I'm a total sucker for chivalry, so open doors for me, help me with my bags, offer me your seat on a crowded bus, etc. and you've got my complete and undivided attention.
2. Surprises like showing up with my favourite chocolate or flowers.
3. Remembering special days or anniversaries.
4. Don't just buy me a generic card, write me a meaningful message. It could be on a sticky note, but your words mean far more than any Hallmark card's.
5. Have the tub filled, candles lit and soft music playing in the background when I get home after a long shift.
6. Personally deliver lunch to my work when you know I have a long day ahead and didn't pack anything or forgot it on the counter.
4. Plan a surprise date night incorporating things I like.
5. When buying me a gift, get to know what I like or when in doubt don't be afraid to check with my kids or my girlfriends.
I'll have to write more stories about things guys did on dates to further illustrate how easy it is to make someone's day. From a woman's perspective, there's so much you can do to make your guy feel special. I think guys are far easier to please. Stay tuned, take notes and give it a shot. You have nothing to lose and so much to gain!
Dateless in Ottawa
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